Casually Explained: First Date Mistakes
Published: 2021-06-28
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Published: 2021-06-28
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Many users of dating apps, particularly men, feel they don't get enough matches and perceive the apps as a waste of time unless they fit a very specific, high-appeal profile.
"a lot of people feel like they aren't getting what they want guys say things like oh I never get any matches it's a waste of time unless you're like a male model"
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Attractive women on dating apps often express frustration about the lack of 'good guys', while their own profiles may lack substance or clear dating intent.
"similarly a lot of attractive women say things like ah the just no good guys on here it's like why do I even try and then their bio is like Sophie 25 love to meet new friends and have fun winky face"
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In 2021, the significance of sexual activity on a first date has shifted from the act itself to more basic forms of intimacy like holding hands.
"it's 2021 so the question isn't whether you had sex it's whether you held hands"
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Sexual fetishes are not considered appropriate topics for discussion on a first date, with Twitch suggested as an alternative platform for such conversations.
"uh should you tell her your sexual fetishes on the first date uh no that's why we have twitch"
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Attractiveness to women is a combination of being 'cool' and having money. Simply investing in trending stocks like GameStop and AMC at their peak is unlikely to impress, suggesting a need for more substantial financial stability or acumen.
"girls like cool men with a lot of money so unfortunately she's not going to be impressed that you bought GameStop and AMC at the top even though you're sure it's going to squeeze any time now"
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A hyperbolic suggestion for escaping an awkward date is to self-administer a sedative to avoid embarrassment.
"if you then run out of storyline entirely and the date gets really awkward just grab your emergency kit roofy yourself and wake up the next day embarrassment free"
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Dating strategies should be tailored to personal attributes: attractive individuals should use Tinder, charismatic people should engage in social circles, and those lacking in these areas are humorously advised to simply 'cheers'.
"if you're an attractive guy use Tinder if you're really charismatic get yourself into more Social Circles if you're neither like honestly cheers"
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Critique of men on dating apps who expect high matches with low-effort profiles and unrealistic standards.
"guys say things like oh I never get any matches it's a waste of time unless you're like a male model I think their profile is a blurry photo of them in cargo shorts holding a foot long shinook salmon"
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Observation on women's dating app bios and how low effort doesn't always deter male interest.
"and then their bio is like Sophie 25 love to meet new friends and have fun winky face and as a guy when you see someone put like no effort into their bio you just think yeah still pretty hot"
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Recommendation for a first date location: somewhere you would enjoy going by yourself, like for drinks.
"so now that we Flash Forward in time and we've got a date we can start getting to the real issues now there are a lot of questions I found on Reddit from people who've never gone on a date before and so I wanted to get those out of the way really quickly before we move on where should I go for a first date uh somewhere you'd enjoy going by yourself anyway so you have drinks"
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Humorous advice against sharing sexual fetishes on a first date, suggesting Twitch as an alternative platform.
"uh should you tell her your sexual fetishes on the first date uh no that's why we have twitch"
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Warning against ambiguity on first dates, specifically mentioning the scenario of realizing the other person is not interested romantically and has a boyfriend.
"making the fact that you're on a date ambiguous uh one of the most common feels bad man scenarios is going on a date with someone to somewhere fairly platonic like a cafe and halfway through your coffee they start talking about their boyfriend and you're like oh no hey I don't know what you thought this was and I probably didn't communicate this properly but like I'm down to experiment dude"
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Advice that women prefer 'cool' men with money, and that simply having money is not enough, using the example of losing money on meme stocks.
"leading with money a lot of guys think that girls like men with a lot of money this is girls like cool men with a lot of money so unfortunately she's not going to be impressed that you bought GameStop and AMC at the top even though you're sure it's going to squeeze any time now"
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Critique of 'slow texting' to appear unavailable, suggesting instead that one should text less often because they are overthinking their responses.
"slow texting a lot of new daters feel they have to artificially stagger their texting to seem busy or unavailable this is stupid because you are available instead you should artificially Stagg your texting because you're overthinking every word of your response"
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Warning against bragging on dates, as it indicates insecurity about social value.
"bragging is probably one of the worst things you can do on a date because you convey to the other person that you're insecure about your social value unless you leverage your one unrelated source of measurable significance"
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Tip for managing first date nervousness: it's okay to have pauses in conversation, and having pre-planned stories or topics can help improvisation.
"if you actually want the solution to being so nervous in my experience it's a it's fine not to say anything and B have a storyline uh if you know the topics and stories you really want to share then you can just completely improvise"
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Advice on choosing first date activities based on personality: chatty people should go for drinks, while more subdued individuals should engage in activities like hiking or board games.
"if you're chatty and personable go for drinks if you're more subdued and aren't good at talking do an activity like hiking or pool or board games and allow her to absorb your personality by destroying her at bullet chest play to your strengths and your lifestyle"
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Suggests using Tinder if you are an attractive guy, and expanding social circles if you are charismatic.
"if you're an attractive guy use Tinder if you're really charismatic get yourself into more Social Circles"
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ExpressVPN can be used to unblock UK-specific Netflix content like 'South Park' and 'Top Gear'.
"unblocking show shows like South bark and Top Gear on Netflix by rerouting to the UK"
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ExpressVPN can be used to watch YouTube videos that are geographically restricted, such as 'Saturday Night Live'.
"watching YouTube videos that are unavailable in my country like Saturday Night Live"
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ExpressVPN can help save money on subscriptions by rerouting to different countries, specifically mentioning savings on NBA League Pass (India) and Netflix (Argentina).
"by rerouting to India you can save over a hundred bucks on an NBA league pass and by rerouting to Argentina you can save over $10 on Netflix"
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